The one thing I’ve discovered over the years – both through my very own experiences and from mentoring others – is males are typical quivering bundles of anxieties and insecurities. We’re not allowed to really, y’know, vocals a lot of these issues – goes against guy Code, most likely – but we sure as hell feel them. Also it’s that failure to really sound our worries or anxieties that allows others prey to them with snake-oil and horse shit. Most likely, why bother really speaking with someone when you’re able to you will need to re re solve the issue with placebos and “supplements” being hawked on belated evening tv and delivered confidentially to your spam filter?

“Yes sir, this right let me reveal created from the best possible black colored market Chinese Viagra knockoffs and unverified components, fully guaranteed to place lead in your pencil, a spring in your step while making women everywhere appreciate your crotch. And I ask you to answer, who could you trust? in the event that you can’t trust a creepily smiling guy on night time TV,”

And in addition, lots of male anxieties revolve around intercourse and performance. Masculinity, in the end, is defined in no little part by one’s sexual ability and really should you fail for the reason that division… well, shitfire son, you’re just not necessarily a guy, have you been? Continue reading →